Wednesday, February 19, 2014

The Great "Weight" Debate: The Ballet Body


The Great “Weight” Debate:  The Ballet Body

 

I’m sitting here trying to start this blog and already feel torn over what I am going to say about how to achieve the perfect “ballet body.”  The thing about the subject is I’ve got so many questions asking, “How can I get skinny for ballet?” or “I’m having weight issues, can you help?”  It already nerves me thinking about answering them because majority of the time they come from very young girls, typically 13-17 years old.  My blood actually starts to boil as I read them because I’m thinking to myself, how can a child actually be worrying about this?  Unfortunately, in our beautiful art form, how we look sometimes overpowers artistry and talent.  I am obviously not a doctor, but I am a high performance athlete who has managed to steer clear from any serious injury thus far in my professional career.  I attribute that to not only my physical activity but also my diet; and I don’t mean “diet” in the fashion magazine quick way to lose 10lbs way, I mean actually what I eat for nutrition to stay healthy.  I would like you to stop thinking about things in terms of getting “skinny” for ballet, but getting “healthy” for ballet.

 

I am going to be careful what I say here, because I do not want to offend anyone and I do not want to steer any young child who is reading this in the wrong direction.  People ask me about how I eat all time.  I reply that I do not really constrict myself from much and I get the old response of, “Well, you’re just lucky you have that body naturally.”  I could not disagree with that statement more.  I’ll tell you about the many “bodies” I have gone through in my 30yrs of life.  I was a string bean as a kid. When I turned 15 my body completely changed.  I grew to be 5’9” and I started to gain weight for the first time in my life.  If you’ve read my previous blog, you would know that during that time I was not dancing full time.  I had taken time off.  When I went back to ballet is when I started to become very VERY aware of how my body looked. It was when I was 17, turning 18 that I decided to go on my very first “diet.”  I thought I knew it all.  It was when the Atkins thing was taking off and I thought to myself it would be the perfect way to lose the 10-15 extra teenage baby pounds. I almost completely cut out all carbs from my diet.  The only carbs I was really eating were from vegetables.  Everything was going great at first; I lost weight fast and my muscle tone was really starting to show.  It wasn’t too long before I noticed that my energy levels were becoming low and I started to get very bad tendonitis in my Achilles, which I never had before.  It was opening week of the Nutcracker at my school and I was to be dancing the role of Sugar Plum Fairy.  My teacher flew in a professional male dancer from Ballet Arizona to be my partner.  We were in rehearsal and I remember telling my mom that I felt like my Achilles was a rubber band.  The next thing I knew, I felt a sharp and very hot pain in my leg.  I had torn where my calf and Achilles meet. 

 

The doctor was surprised that someone as young as me would sustain such an injury.  He started asking me questions and when he got to the bottom of it, he told me that a large part in the breakdown of my body was that I was not fueling it properly for the amount of physical activity I was doing.  NO CARBS was A VERY BAD IDEA.  After my injury I started to eat a well-rounded diet and felt great!  Then, I left for college the next year.  Freshman 15? That would have been nice, try freshman 25 for me!  I ate like crap, to be frank.  Pizza late at night and Snickers for a snack from the vending machine.  I was in college on my own for the first time and didn’t have much money.  It wasn’t until I was 23 and at Pittsburgh Ballet Theatre that I finally started to figure out how to treat my body well.  I made two very major decisions— I was cutting out fried foods and cutting out alcohol (for all of you who are over 21 years old and up).  I started eating small portions of food, but at least six times a day, and was very religious about taking a multi-vitamin and B-Complex.  For the past 7 years of my life, I have really not changed how my body looks or my weight much.  I have figured out how to maintain a healthy and strong body for ballet through healthy eating and moderation.

 

So here are my thoughts.  If you are a young girl or boy reading this, you have absolutely no business depriving your body of anything.  A “diet” shouldn’t ever be in your vocabulary.  You can, however, start learning how to eat healthy to maintain an athlete’s body.  You will obviously need your parent’s help, but for example;  instead of eating french fries at school for lunch, consider packing your lunch with a nice turkey sandwich and some fruit and veggies.  It’s also OK to eat ice cream and pizza with your friends, but you don’t have to be excessive.  I truly believe that moderation is key.  One awful trend that I have seen from teaching around the country is being in front of a herd of 13 year old kids and halfway through barre struggling to get them to respond to combinations let alone get through them.  I always ask if they have had breakfast, and more often than not, I hear “NO.”  Breakfast is the most important meal of the day because it jump starts your metabolism and gives you energy for the day!  Try eating some scrambled eggs with cheese and avocado or oatmeal like I do EVERYDAY. 

Another problem I see is young students are not taught how to “snack” between classes and rehearsals.  I do not mean cookies and cakes.  I would suggest bringing some crackers or fruits and veggies with ranch to have on breaks.  It keeps you energized in the body but also the brain!  I always drink a high protein shake after every ballet class I take.  I wouldn’t suggest that for young kids, but an alternative would be to pack a 2% chocolate milk with you.  When you get older, maybe 17 or 18, drinking a protein shake would work!  For a major meal like dinner try to be as balanced as you can be.  Eat a protein like chicken or beef, a vegetable and maybe a bit of pasta.  I promise you that if you maintain a well-balanced diet your body will respond in the way you want it to.  Like me, pass up the French fries for a salad or soup and maybe eat 1 cookie instead of 5, but do not totally restrict yourself from foods that will feed your mind and body.

 
My belief is that, while training as a young dancer, we should not be programmed to think “skinny” but rather, “healthy.”  Lay off the scales kids.  Crying over a stupid number will not make anything better and most of the time it means nothing!   Start to focus on your health and strength so you can dance until you’re well into your 40’s injury free!!!!!

 



Xoxo

Allison

Sunday, February 9, 2014

Let's change the World--Together!!! Join Fahodie for Friends!

Let's change the World--Together!  Join Fahodie for Friends!


Have you ever wanted to help make the world a better place, but didn't know where to start?  Sometimes it can be overwhelming considering that it seems there is more evil then good surrounding us all in today's world.  I remember being a teenager trying to figure out ways to help the people around me and feeling helpless because there wasn't much that I had to call my own.  I also wasn't a teenager in the digital world of Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and Vine.  I don't think you all realize how powerful you are right now!  I am writing to ask YOU ALL to help me, help a friend, who is trying to change the world!  Everyone please take the time to learn and spread the word about Fahodie for Friends- Freedom!  https://www.facebook.com/fahodieforfriends.org


Many of us are so blessed and it's easy to get caught up in our luxuries to realize that not everyone has the same blessings as we do.  You may not know, but human trafficking and modern day slavery is a very serious problem in our world today.  Picture
The founder of Fahodie for Friends is Ms. Lillian Nana Adjoa Martino (currently 18 years old).  Lillian was born in Ghana, Africa; however, she was adopted by a loving family from the United States when she was three years old.  As Lillian got older and began to research the country of her birth, she was dismayed and discouraged to discover the levels of poverty, abuse, and modern day slavery in Ghana and in many other parts of the world.  This knowledge weighed heavily upon her mind, her spirit, and her heart.

In 2012, as a precocious 16-year old, Lillian decided that one person, even a teenager, can make a difference… and she created a project called Friends for Friends, which has now evolved into Fahodie for Friends.  Fahodie being the Ghanaian word for freedom.
 


How I got involved with Fahodie for Friends is that Lillian's beautiful family happens to be a major supporter of Ballet West.  I have had the pleasure to get to know them all personally and couldn't help to be overwhelmed by their passion for Fahodie for Friends and their need to help the people around them.  There are many ways to help this organization and for those of you who may be young and sometimes feel helpless know that by sharing Fahodie for Friend's Facebook page and website could change the lives of so many children just like you!  Lillian and her team travel to Ghana often and are planning to use the funds donated to Fahodie for Friends to build schools and shelters for young women, men and children in need in Ghana, Africa.  I will be joining Fahodie for Friends as a project manager to help spread the word and hope to be making a trip to Ghana myself!  Please take the time to visit their website and help in any way possible.  There are three powerful ways to be useful; ADVOCATE, VOLUNTEER AND DONATE.  You can choose whichever outlet to help that suits you best at this time.  Below is a link to video of a story recently aired on CNN about modern day slavery and human trafficking, 'Slavery in West Africa.'  It may be hard to watch but being educated on problems the world faces is the first step in making changes for the better! 
 
 

Visit Fahodie for Friends website and Facebook page to join in the effort!

 
 

If you would like to donate to Fahodie for Friends please contact Shelly Hanson:

shelley.hanson.@fahodieforfriends.org

 
If you decide to help us please make sure to tag Fahodie for Friends and Allison DeBona Breaking Pointe on Facebook and @allidebona on Twitter and Instagram so we can personally thank you for helping us make a difference!!!!
 
xoxo
Allison
 
 




 
 

Thursday, February 6, 2014

It's Theatre Week!! Sleeping Beauty Edition!

It's Theatre Week!!  Sleeping Beauty Edition!

Hey Everyone!!

Tomorrow night is officially opening night for Ballet West's production of Sleeping Beauty!!!  It has been crazy and tiring, but for the most part, everything has been running smoothly!  All you see as a patron is the polished finished product, but I bet you don't realize how much work it actually takes to move any ballet from the studio to the stage.  I'm going to let you in on a few "behind the scenes" tricks of the trade!

This season we have four casts and two ladies will be making their very special debuts as Aurora!  Principal Artists Christiana Bennett and Katherine Lawrence will be first and second cast Aurora and Principal Artist Arolyn Williams and Soloist Beckanne Sisk will both be premiering as Aurora!! We are so excited to be there for their first performances.  Many ballerinas say that Aurora is one of, if not the hardest, role for a ballerina.  First Soloist Rex Tilton will be Prince Desire opening night with Christiana and Principal Tom Mattingly will be dancing with Arolyn.  Also, making their debut as Prince Desire will be Soloist Adrian Fry with Katherine and Christopher Sellars with Beckanne.  It's been a pretty cool experience watching everyone grow in these roles.  Even as a Soloist you watch and learn from your peers.  I respect them all and wish them all the best!

The two roles I will be playing are Carabosse (Fairy of Jealousy) and Fairy Kindness.  I always enjoy the opportunities when I get to play polar opposite characters during a performance run.  Opening night I will play Carabosse and she is very special to me.  I've always been a little infatuated with witches, so playing an evil witch is a treat for me.  One of the coolest things about playing Carabosse is I get to fly on stage!!!  I thought I would be scared the first time I got rigged, but it turned out the little witch in me made me a natural!  The entire Prologue I dance with a harness under my costume!! Yes, it weighs a bit, yes, it messes with my dancing, and YES, it hurts my nether regions....hahaha!
Here is a video of me getting strapped in before the tech rehearsal this week.  My awesome friend Demi-Soloist Katie Critchlow is always around to make fun of the experience!




Fairy Kindness is naturally delightful and not painful at all!  I get to partner with my Fairy Cavalier (who happens to be Mr. Ronald Tilton) and dance a variation in the Prologue. The Prologue, if  you do not know, is Aurora's Christening.  As a Fairy, we each are blessing her with a gift.  I have a beautiful blue tutu and fairy wings!




The schedule is kinda strange during theatre weeks and it takes a few days to get used to.  We have class from 11-12:30pm and rehearsal for two hours after class each day.  We then have to be back to the theatre no later than half hour call which is 7pm for Sleeping Beauty.  For roles like Carabosse I have a wig call at 6:45 so I actually get to the theatre around 5:45 to get my make-up on and warm up.  If I'm playing Fairy Kindness, getting to the theatre at 6pm gives me enough time to get ready and warm up for a 7:30pm show.  Usually, our rehearsals run until 10:30pm and because Sleeping Beauty is so long, we probably wont get out of the theatre until that time after shows, too!  We end up on the worst sleeping and eating schedules!  Dinner is at 11pm!  I always try to eat a protein packed meal after a show so that my body rejuvenates for the next day!

Sleeping Beauty runs February 7-16th at the Capitol Theatre in SLC.  You can visit www.balletwest.org or ARTix for tickets to the show!  I hope to see you all there and if you do come make sure to send me a message letting me know what you think!!!

MERDE (ballet's version of good luck) to all my friends this week!

xoxo
Allison






Monday, February 3, 2014

The Road Less Traveled (psst...is ok, too!)


The Road Less Traveled (psst...is ok, too!)


Ok, there is only one path to becoming a professional ballerina.  Start young, dance every day of the week, go to every summer program there is, and NEVER GO TO COLLEGE, you'll be too old when you graduate to get a job.

WRONG.  Sure that is a great plan for success, but who wants to do what everyone else does anyway?

In all seriousness, that plan is probably the best way to make it to the big leagues of ballet.  There were times, in my life, that I wish I had done just that.  People often ask me how I ended up at Ballet West.  I definitely took the road less traveled to Salt Lake City, making stops in places like good choices, bad choices, heartbreaks and triumphs.

I started ballet at the age of three (at least I got one thing right! ha) at the Parou Ballet Company in New Castle, Pa.. It was love at first sight! I remember being young and asked to run across the floor and pretend I was picking up a flower.  I knew at a young age that dance was a way to tell stories with my body and I couldn't get enough.  It came easy to me.  I could turn, jump and had high extension.  I was on pointe at 9 years old and dancing with the "big girls".  When I was 12, I moved to Pittsburgh from New Castle.  That meant a new school and new ballet school.  I started at Pittsburgh Youth Ballet and was given a part in Balanchine's Serenade the first day I was there.  All of a sudden, things started to change.  I had a hard time making friends at school and at ballet and I felt overwhelmed by all the changes in my life.  The following summer was the first summer that I auditioned for summer programs.  I was accepted to SAB and NCSA.  That summer my mother was also due to have my younger sister, Delaney.  Everyone was saying that I had to go to a summer program because it was the only way to get noticed and asked to stay for a year round program...the first step into a company.  I sat down with my Mom and told her I didn't want to go.  I waited my whole life for a sister (I had two bros up until that point) and I couldn't miss her being born.  That summer I took off from ballet and didn't go back until I was almost 17.

Yeah, I didn't do ballet at all for three years.  I didn't step back into the studio until I was 16 and a few months.  There was so much change happening in my life and I felt like the only thing I could control was quitting the thing I loved most.  I tried a lot of other things like cheerleading and drill team.  I went to high school football games and hung out at the coolest spots on Friday nights.  You know, did the "normal" thing. I was having a lot of fun, but wasn't feeling as fulfilled as I did in the ballet studio.  One random day when I was almost 17 I asked my mom if I could go back to ballet.  She about died waiting for this to happen!  I called PYB and asked them if I could come back and when I could start.  Everything was looking up! Until the first combination at the barre....what did I do to myself?!?!?

I lost my turnout, could barely finish a single pirouette and forget about extension!! I lost it all! It used to be so easy!  My body changed into a teenagers body without the refinement of ballet for those 3 years. I remember crying for months thinking I could never make it back.  But I made changes.  I started eating healthier because I was an athlete again and went to the gym to cross train.  I also applied to be the first student at my high school to take my academics early in the morning and leave to go to ballet the rest of the day.  It took almost a year to feel like I was getting back into ballet shape, but it did happen.  Two years flew by fast and it was time for me to graduate school.  I knew I wanted to dance professional but my parents were pushing me to get a college education.  I did take a lot of time off, and was still behind, so they thought it was a good idea to get additional training.  To my ballet teachers it was the final death wish.  I already pushed my luck taking so much time off, but now college?? I'd be too old when I graduated to get a job.

I ended up applying to schools and not auditioning.  I spent four years at Indiana University, Bloomington.  They have an amazing ballet program! My first year I got cast in Swan Lake as a Tall Swan and Balanchine's Four Temperaments and was coached by Julie Kent, Susan Jaffe and Susie Pillare.  Unfortunately, my sophomore year I got caught up in the "college experience" and almost blew it!  I'm telling you these things because I think it's important for young kids to understand that you will make mistakes along away and it's OK, it's what you learn from your mistakes that build your character.  I got in a lot of trouble from the ballet directors.  I didn't take care of my body and got out of shape.  In return I didn't get cast in many ballets. I was not ready to audition for companies come graduation time and was told point blank to forget about ever becoming professional.  I believed them. I ruined my own chances, again. I was happy that I would end up getting a degree because I was going to definitely need it now that my chances of being a dancer were pretty slim to none. While home in Pittsburgh the summer before my last semester at school I started to take open classes at Pittsburgh Ballet Theatre.  I was asked if I would be interested in training at their Graduate Program.  I could not pass up the opportunity and agreed to come, finishing my last semester at Indiana online so I could graduate.  The decision to go to PBT changed my life.

It was so hard for me at first at PBT.  I was the oldest, at 23, when everyone around me was no older than 19.   I also was severely out of shape and could barely get through variations in class.  I was most definitely the underdog.  Luckily, 23 was the year I came out of my shell!!  I was tired of hearing the word "NO" and I was determined to make my dreams come true.  I danced from 9-6pm everyday and taught ballet until 10pm every night.  I waited tables on the weekends to save money for auditions.  I never worked harder in my life then I did that year.  There were days that I felt discouraged, but I wasn't going to look back at my mistakes; I was keeping focused on this opportunity to change the path my life was on.  From January-March of that year I drove to NYC every weekend for every cattle call audition there was.  I'd get cut and didn't care, it wasn't stopping me.  A few times I heard I was too tall and few times I did hear I was too old.  I heard "NO" a million times, but it didn't matter because one "YES" was all I needed! 

Come April, I got the call from Ballet West!!!!! I was asked to join the company as an Apprentice.  Opening night of my very first professional performance was my 24th Birthday.  I was told it was never going to happen for me and there I was, ON STAGE.  In seven years, I have now worked my way up to being a Soloist. 

I am a firm believer that you are in charge of your own destiny.  I have made so many bad choices in my life but a lot of good choices, too.  I know I am very blessed to be where I am today but I assure you I was not handed any of my success.  I made mistakes, learned from them, made changes and worked my butt off to get to where I am right now at 30 years old.  A lot of you ask if it's too late for you to live out your dreams.  What's too late to you?  An age? There shouldn't be a time limit when finding happiness.  Every one's journey is different.  Mine was long and sometime hard, but I made it which means you can too!!  Everyone will have an opinion, but when it comes to you, your opinion of yourself is what matters most!! Find CONFIDENCE in who you are, gain the STRENGTH to maintain who you are, and live your life with GRACE.  To living the dream!!!

xoxo
Allison



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Hello Everyone!!

I can't express how excited I am about FINALLY starting a blog!! Besides dancing, I have always had a passion for journalism.  I consider it a way to connect to people and I believe it is our relationships with each other that keeps the world a happy place.  Since Breaking Pointe, I have been given the gift to travel around the country meeting so many of you!  From young to old it has been such a pleasure to see with my own eyes how my life could effect so many, positively.  I get questions on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram so often and it's hard to answer in just a few sentences.  I think this blog is the best way to answer all of your questions!!!  Don't be afraid to ask away!!

xoxo
Allison